Responsible Parenting:
- Sharing parental responsibilities
- Being a positive non-violent role model for the children
Non-Threatening Behavior:
- Talking and acting so that she/he feels safe and comfortable expressing themselves and doing things
Honesty and accountability:
- Accepting responsibility for self
- Acknowledging past use of violence
- Admitting being wrong
- Communicating openly and truthfully
Trust and Support:
- Supporting their goals in life
- Respecting their right to their own feelings, friends, activities and opinions
Respect:
- Listening to and being non-judgmental
- Being emotionally affirming and understanding
- Valuing opinions
Shared Responsibility:
- Mutual money decision-making
- Making family decisions together
Economic Partnership:
- Making money decisions
- Making sure both partners benefit financially
Negotiation and Fairness:
- Seeking mutually satisfying resolutions to conflict
- Accepting change
- Being willing to compromise